Hi,

As you read this, the many of you that celebrate Christmas will be getting into your festivities. I will be in Santa Barbara, CA with my sweetheart and his family and then off to Denver, CO to be with my family and to do some skiing at Vail, CO, my favorite place to ski! I am also going to take some time during this 2 week period to relax, reflect and do a bit of organizing and planning for next year.

What are you doing to prepare for 2009? Research shows if you don’t plan you plan to fail. The Law of Attraction tells us if we do not put some positive energy towards our vision, goals and dreams, they might not happen the way we want them to. Why not create what you want? Check out today’s article- Fail to Plan, Plan to Fail, make 2009 a Fantastic Year for you!

Have a great holiday and take care of yourself! Thank you for your patronage! See you in 2009.

Blessings of Happiness and Success,

Dr. Cindy Brown, “The Relationship Strategist,” Author of The Cinderella System™: 7 Steps to Attracting the Man & Relationship of Your Dreams, www.TheCinderellaSystem.com

DECEMBER 24-JANUARY 4, 2009 –Happy HOLIDAYS Santa Barbara, CA AND Denver, CO. Time off to be with family, celebrate, relax and reflect, ski and Plan.

JANUARY 2009- Cinderella System Glass Slipper Camp starts

JANUARY 12, 2009 – Interviewed By Nancy Kaye- “What Is Communication?” Tele-seminar Series

JANUARY 22-25, 2009 – Freedom Formula Experience in Los Angeles, CA. Come join me won’t you! See information below on this amazing event!

FEBRUARY 2009- The Cinderella System Book Re-launch Campaign

MARCH 8, 2009- Speaking at International Women’s Conference in Santa Barbara

SINGLE WOMEN ARE YOU INTERESTED IN HAVING A GREAT MAN AND AN AWESOME RELATIONSHIP BY SOMETIME IN 2009? I am launching my award winning Cinderella System™ Glass Slipper LOVE Camp starting in January 2009 and completing in March 2009. Be one of the first to graduate at this unbeatable price. 70% of the spots are already taken so Please contact me ASAP to receive the special invitation and all the sent to you the week of Jan 5, 2009.

DON’T LET THE CLOCK STRIKE 12 AND BE LEFT SHOELESS AND CLUELESS AND WITHOUT A MAN IN 2009!

"Fail to Plan, Plan to Fail! Make 2009 a Fantastic Year for You!"
By Dr. Cindy Brown, “The Business & Relationship Dr.”

Why would you set off on a Journey without a map, plan, and vision of where you want to end up?

Adventure you say... Well that's like closing your eyes and just hoping you will hit the bull's-eye in darts, when you really, really WANT to hit the center. Adventure may be fun when you have nothing to lose, you have all the money you want and need AND all the time to waste.

However, if you have wants and needs financially and something you want to accomplish NOW, you will need a roadmap and your positive, focused energy directed towards your ultimate goal. You will need to understand what it looks like completed and practice seeing that vision along with the feelings that you will have when you complete it.

Research shows repeatedly that people who spend time to map out their goals and visions and spend the time cultivating, making them happen, get to their planned destination... As I learned on my holiday ski vacation on year.

Here are some helpful ways of creating that trail map to get you moving down the hill towards your vision.

I. Inventory the previous year (your last map or plan) Allow yourself some time to explore these questions; put music on, meditate, pray or think about each one and write down what you find.

What did you accomplish? What are you proud of?
What are you thankful for?
What did you not complete that you wanted to?
What do you want your next year to look like?

II. Vision for Manifestation - Stay in that contemplative, meditative place and imagine yourself in the present year, walking through a forest path and you come across a bridge to a beautiful meadow and garden with a big pond. You bend down to look into this pond and you see your reflection and you begin seeing your present year flash in front of you; the things you accomplish, the goals you complete, the relationships you have; all the good and maybe even the challenges... flash forward it is New Years eve. You are looking at your goal sheet and you are reading off all your completed goals to a gathering of your most supportive and loving friends. They are smiling at you and clapping in celebration of your accomplishments. You feel the expanding joy inside you!

III. PLAN NOW! Or Plan to Fail! Write down right now what you saw...what was the big picture, what were you doing, what did you accomplish, what were you feeling???

Now write down 1-3 goals in each of these categories you want to complete:

Personal/Psychological, Health/wellness, Job/career, Financial, Spiritual, Social/Relationships, Family, Community/charity

These are the beginning steps to planning and visioning and manifesting your dreams. In my next newsletter I will show you the next steps in this process to assure that your goals get completed and your dreams fulfilled. I will show you how to take a goal to completion through my next 3 steps. Don’t miss it.

I know these steps will help you and will prepare you to have what you really want in 2009. Remember: In order to be the person you have never been, In order to have the Life and Relationships you have never had, You must do what you have never done before. Contact us so we can make Your dreams come true also!

© 2008 Dr. Cindy Brown

WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE OR WEB SITE? You can, as long as you include this complete blurb with it: Behavior and Relationship Specialist, Master This Mindset™ Coach Dr. Cindy Brown, author of The Cinderella System™ publishes a information-packed monthly online newsletter with 1000's of subscribers. If you're ready to jump-start your life and relationships professionally, or personally, get your FR*EE Master This Mindset Starter Kit™ at: http://www.MasterThisMindsetGift.com
 and your FR*EE Special Report & Audio Class now at www.SuccessfulRelationshipsNow.com

The Freedom Formula Experience
Los Angeles, CA ~ January 22-25, 2009

The Freedom Formula Experience is a LIVE, 4-day event based on my good friend Christine Kloser’s best-selling book The Freedom Formula. This event is for anyone who wants to learn exactly how to INTEGRATE business tactics with spiritual insights and understanding in these changing times. Doing one without the other just isn't going to work anymore. Your success depends on you knowing how to integrate the best of BOTH worlds into YOUR business. And, this is what you'll not only LEARN but EXPERIENCE when you attend The Freedom Formula Experience this January. I will be there, love to see you there too! 

And, because it's so critical for you to "get" this new INTEGRATED approach of spirit and business, she’s invited some of today's leading experts to share their wisdom and strategies with you too, including:  

Marianne Williamson, author of A Return to Love
James Twyman, director/producer of The Moses Code
David Neagle, Author of The Art of Success
Neale Donald Walsch, author of Conversations with God
Christine Kloser, author of The Freedom Formula

These experts are all in positions of influence and power (in a good way) because they know how to integrate Spirit and Business to have a huge impact on the world while also creating abundant wealth. Isn't it time for YOU to STEP UP and do the same in your business? It's absolutely possible, and I'll show you the way.   

RESERVE YOUR SEAT NOW
http://www.TheFreedomFormula.com/experience

Dr. Cindy Brown, “The Business & Relationship Strategist,” executive and results coach, international business trainer, author and speaker who has helped 1000’s of executives, individuals and couples in the areas of relationship skills and success strategies; leadership and communication skills; Business/Employee Health, Work/ Life Balance and Stress Management. She is author of The Cinderella System™, Relationship Secrets, Are you Stressed and Co-author of Power & Soul.

Dr. Brown is the founder and president of Behavior, Relationship Institute Inc., and Dr. Cindy Brown International- a professional Training and Coaching Company dedicated to resolving business and personal relationships and issues from the inside-out. Her company’s slogan is – A Healthier Way To Work and Live! Visit all of our sites- http://www.MasterThisMindsetGift.com, www.TheCinderellaSystem.com and www.SuccessfulRelationshipsNow.com to get your FR*EE Success Kits, FR*EE AUDIO CLASS and great tips and articles to improve your Business and Relationships NOW!