Guess where I was last weekend? I was down in the O.C. (that is Orange County, California). I stayed at the magnificent St. Regis Resort, Monarch Beach. They have the most amazing brunch I have ever experienced (you’ve got to see it and try it to believe it) and a beautiful gym you can workout in after you eat all that yummy food.  

While I rested by the pool and relaxed with a great massage, I also began planning and brainstorming with two of my favorite people- Lisa & Lucho Crisalle of Exercise And Nutrition Works.

Pssssst! You are the first to know, we are planning an amazing live event for Spring 2007 and we were checking out this beautiful resort as a possible location for this exciting and powerful event. Stay tuned for more details as they develop, you will be the first to know.

Is Your Relationship a Trick or a Treat? Are you making Mistakes? In my featured article I share with you some of the biggest mistakes people make in relationships today. Keep reading below to transform your relationship from a trick into a treat instantly!

Live Healthy, Work Healthy, Be Wealthy,

Dr. Cindy Brown, “The Business & Relationship Dr”, Creator of the Wildly Popular “Are You Stressed” CD, Guidebook And Personal Journal System
 

My FREE teleseminar: “Relationship Secrets to Take You From Whiner to Winner Instantly,” is October 30, 2006, 6:00pm Pacific Time. 

You will learn:

• What to do to prevent the most Common Mistakes people make in relationships personally and professionally

• How to Speak so anyone will listen to you

• What language to use to get your intimacy needs met every time.

• How to have the relationship of your dreams

• AS A BONUS- You will get an opportunity to ask me- Dr. Cindy “Live” a burning question of your choice.

Hurry and register today, by clicking here. You will send a blank email to the special registration email address and it will enter you into our registration process. You then will receive within an hour an email containing the special call-in number and access code.

Take Action, Register NOW!  Can’t wait to chat with you!

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Starting in November 2006 my New Relationship Success Club, a monthly membership club designed to guarantee you success in your personal as well as your business relationships. From the Boardroom to the bedroom and beyond. Club membership includes: monthly teleseminars with special guest speakers, monthly call-in coaching hours and much, much more! Stay tuned for more details.

“Are You Making a Big Mistake? Relationship Tricks or Treats?”

By Dr. Cindy Brown, “The Business & Relationship Dr.”

I know there is a lot of relationship advice out there: we listen to Dr. Phil and Oprah on TV; we read books like Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus and Why Men like Bitches; we listen on the radio to Dr. Laura. So why should you listen to me? Because I am a Behavior Specialist and have years and years of experience working with happy and unhappy couples and individuals, business people and employees and I know what is not working and what IS WORKING when it comes to relationships.

Here are some of the most common mistakes I have seen my clients and friends make in their personal and professional relationships:

1. Getting Upset: This occurs when you think (expect) the person you are in relationship (or communication with) knows what you want and need. How many times have you been upset when your partner, colleague or employee you relate with has not acted the way you wanted him/her to? I teach people how to avoid this kind of upset and communicate and relate more effectively so you feel happier and more successful inside and outside of the office and within personal partnerships.

2. Creating Stories: Do you ever remember a time when you witnessed an event with a group of people and noticed that each person recalled that event differently? This is common because we each see things through our own unique pair of glasses, eyes, or filters that are made up of how we view the world, from how we have experienced life up until that point. Realizing this very important fact saves you from upset and assuming people experience and understand the world the way you do. I teach people to identify what’s real for them and what their stories are and how these can get them into trouble within their relationships.

3. Using “You” Communication: The most common mistake people make is pointing their finger at someone and saying “YOU...” The majority of people I coach ask me for help with some form of communicating. Whether it is “how do I manage an employee so he is not threatened by me?”, or “how do I tell my partner how I like to be pleased or to have sex?” Using the right communication makes all the difference in the world with the results you get in these two situations. I teach people how to be the most successful in the situations they are finding to be the most challenging, at work or in the home. By using “I” statements, you will get more of what you want with the least amount of upset from those you are communicating with.

These are just 3 of the most common mistakes people make in relationships. I have at least 7 more I am excited to share with you. However I would like you to practice these 3 first and then be able to practice the others after you feel successful at these. I will reveal the others in my new teleseminar From Whiner to Winner on October 30th, 2006 at 6:00pm Pacific Time. * Don’t miss this:**As a bonus you will get the rare opportunity to ask me “LIVE-in-person” any relationship or intimacy question you have been dying to get answered.

Hurry and register today. By clicking here you will send a blank email to the special registration email address and it will enter you into our registration process. You then will receive within an hour an email containing the special call-in number and access code. Take Action, Register NOW! Can’t wait to chat with you!

Remember: In order to be the person you have never been, In order to have the relationship you have never had, You must do what you have never done before: Listen in on my teleseminar Oct 30th, 2006, 6pm PST, or Give me a call or contact me so I can support you!

© 2006 Dr. Cindy Brown

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Dear Dr. Cindy:
I am in a committed relationship of 8 months. We recently moved in together and I have a big problem I don’t know how to handle. It’s quite embarrassing to ask you, but I don’t know who else to ask?  How do I let my boyfriend know what I need sexually to please me, without upsetting him?

Embarrassed and Unsatisfied
B. Y.

Dear Embarrassed and Unsatisfied:
I first want to say, Congratulations for reaching out and being proactive! So many couples wait till it’s too late and get mad at each other for other things as a way to break themselves apart, rather than learning how to communicate in a way that is honest, loving and respectful.

I teach people how to communicate their needs to their partner in a way that is non-threatening and gets them the results they want.

The First thing is to talk about this before you are in the bed together. Make sure you get his permission to interrupt him (never walk in front of him when he is watching a game on TV). Wait for another time that you sense he is open to communicating. Secondly, Start by telling him what has been good about your sex life, what you like, what he’s been doing well, then say to him “what would make our sex even hotter is..., then the question, Would you like to try this soon?”

Try these tips and let me know how it goes. Also, tune in for my teleseminar (register below) for more intimacy tips and please share your success story with us! Have fun J

All my best to you,

Dr. Brown will answer your questions here each month. Please send your questions to info@drcindybrownintl.com.

My FREE teleseminar: “Relationship Secrets to Take You From Whiner to Winner Instantly,” is October 30, 2006, 6:00pm Pacific Time. 

You will learn:

• What to do to prevent the most Common Mistakes people make in relationships personally and professionally

• How to Speak so anyone will listen to you

• What language to use to get your intimacy needs met every time.

• How to have the relationship of your dreams

• AS A BONUS- You will get an opportunity to ask me- Dr. Cindy “Live” a burning question of your choice.

Hurry and register today, by clicking here. You will send a blank email to the special registration email address and it will enter you into our registration process. You then will receive within an hour an email containing the special call-in number and access code.

 Take Action, Register NOW!  Can’t wait to chat with you!

Copyright © 2006 Dr. Cindy Brown. All rights reserved.